The Sexiest Holiday Gift Guide: How to buy the very best for the very best

Which sex toy can I buy for my wife or girlfriend?

Which sex toy should I buy for my husband or boyfriend?

Are there vibrators for beginners?

Can a masturbator make a good gift?

Are there any kinky gifts out there?

  

Giving the perfect gift to that special someone year after year can be a challenge. Especially when it seems like they already have everything they need. Well, how about giving something they want instead? It’s time to not only get creative but get sexy. Giving the gift of a sex toy or pleasure product will help spice up the rest of the year. 

 

Walking into an adult toy store can be overwhelming. Especially if you don’t know what you’re looking for. Knowing the top of the line products will help narrow down your options and make the decision simple.

 

The Perfect Toys for the Woman in Your Life

Looking for a gift for that remarkable woman in your life? Choosing something as intimate as a sex toy can take some careful thought. 

Some toys are best left to those with lots of pleasure product experience. But there are also plenty that are great for beginners! 

The main question you need to know the answer to is: 

Does she prefer clitoral stimulation or internal stimulation?

 

Perfect Adult Toys for Beginners - Women

Clitoral:

Our favourite choice for beginner clitoral stimulation is theChrome Premium bullet by Le Wand. It is a gorgeous, classy, and timeless option that shows your favourite lady her pleasure is your priority. 

It’s rechargeable and has two interchangeable silicone tips for added pleasure. 

 

 

Internal: 

Unsure if she prefers clitoral or internal stimulation? Don’t worry. We’ve got you covered.The Seduce vibrator from Playful makes the best of both worlds. 

Covered with ultra-soft medical-grade silicone, it’s ideal for those who are apprehensive about internal toys. The magnetic charger, which doubles as the controls, also means that it’s entirely waterproof. She can take it in the shower, tub, or anywhere where the mood strikes her!

 

Perfect Adult Toys for Intermediate Users - Women

Clitoral:

She loves her old vibrators but is getting bored with them. Shake things up withthe Ferri by Lovense. It is deceivingly small but packs a punch she won’t forget any time soon. What sets this toy apart from the competition? It is designed for discreet play. It has a small magnet that can hold the toy in place in her panties and a compatible app she can let you control. So, whether you’re long-distance lovers or looking to spice up things on a night out, the Ferri will suit all your needs.

 

 

Internal: 

So she’s used a few toys before and wants to try something new? Lelo, as usual, has you covered. Did you know that theG-spot prefers the “come hither” motion to vibrations?The Mona Wave by Lelo replicates those fabulous finger motions while also vibrating. What more could a girl ask for?

 

Perfect Adult Toys for Advanced Users - Women

Clitoral:

She may think she’s tried everything in the book, but Lelo has impressed us again. As all accomplished adult toy users can tell you, there is little better on earth than a sucking vibrator. While almost every company has their own version now, Lelo has perfected the design. The ultra-sleek Sona 2 offers cruise control. That means it will automatically go into overdrive and suck harder when you push it against your skin. The design provides a softer, deeper and bigger mouth to bring pleasure to the entire visible clitoris. 

 

Internal:

You’re ready to knock her socks off, and it seems like nothing impresses her anymore. Luckily, Fun Factory has made something entirely new. It’s a rabbit style vibrator that thrusts for you! Meaning, it can be a hands-free good time! The powerful thrusting ofthe Bistronic Fusion pairs with a wide clitoral vibrator, so it won't miss. 

 

The Perfect Gifts for the Man in Your Life

Are you stumped about what to get the remarkable man in your life? Get him something that will help shake things up in his solo-sex routine. Penis-owners tend to masturbate frequently, which means things can get a little boring. Get creative and be genuinely selfless. Get him something that will forever alter his solo-sex routine.

 

The Low-Cost Beginners Masturbator

TheTenga Soft tube is an inexpensive toy. It is an easy way to show your partner that you care about his solo-sex habits. They are similar to a pocket pussy, but more discreet and nondescript. This toy is designed to be disposable, so there isn’t any pressure if it isn’t his thing.

These super inexpensivemasturbators provide total stimulation of the penis. They also feature a pressure hole at the top. This hole allows him to control how tight the masturbator gets on his penis. 

 

The Intermediate Masturbator for Everyone

No man’s sex toy collection would be complete without a Fleshlight product.The Pilot is wonderfully nondescript, meaning it doesn’t look like any particular orifice. So sexual orientation or preference isn’t a concern! The Pilot can bring pleasure to anyone with a penis. If you want to really make this toy special, grab theshower mount, somecleaner, and renewal powder as well!

 

The Perfect Masturbator for Seasoned Users

Of course, this list couldn’t be complete without a high-tech masturbator. For this, our favourite is the Onyx+ by KIIROO. Why has this beaten out the F1S™V2 by LELO and the ArcWave by WowTech? Because the Onyx+ can play with other toys. Using the compatible application, you can pair two Lovense toys together! You can pair two Onyx+ masturbators or with the compatible vibrator. Check out thecouple’s sex toy kit with the Pearl 2 if you want to choose something totally unforgettable. 

 

Gifts for the Anally Oriented

Whether you’re new to anal play, or you’re a seasoned professional, there are a lot of toys to choose from.

Whether it’s plugs, beads, or something else,Funtasia has you covered. 

Choosing an anal toyfor someone else might feel a bit challenging. We’ve got something for everyone at every level of anal comfort. 

Adult Toys for Anal Beginners

If you’re just getting started with anal, you’re overwhelmed with what to choose. Luckily,Satisfyer has created a simple, inexpensive three-piece plug set just for you. Their 15-year guarantee is unrivalled, just like the variety offered in this three-piece kit. These body-safe plugs are sleek, simple, and let you choose your own adventure with a single purchase. 

 

Intermediate Anal Play Toys

So you’ve tried some anal play, and you’re getting used to it! Take things to the next level withWe-Vibe’s Vector. Thisprostate massager can be enjoyed by anyone with an anus. It is also has easy ways to customise each experience. You can choose between the compatible app or the handy remote. That way you are sure to maximise the fun you have every time you play!

 

Perfect Adult Toys for Anal Aficionados

You’re looking for something with some heft and weight to it. You want this to be a memorable toy that leaves your partner feeling full and sexy. Check out theHush 1.5 by Lovense. It is one of the strongest vibrating plugs on the market. It also effortlessly connects with your smartphone for hands-free pleasure. It’s small, quiet, and perfect for travel. You can let your partner near or far have complete control of the Hush while you’re playing or while you go about your day. 

  

Gifts for Kinksters

You know someone excited at the thought of restraints, maybe some whips, and sensation play. You want to pick out just the right thing for them, but where can you start? There are so many kinks out there; where can you start?

 

 

Kits for Kinky Beginners

Your friend or loved one is new to kinky things and doesn’t know where to start. Maybe they’re too shy even to bring it up themselves. Grabbing a bondage kit will be the most straightforward option so they can figure out what they enjoy. This6-piece bondage kit by Playful offers you a ton of experimentation opportunities! With one purchase, they’ll be the proud owners of a blindfold, flogger, paddle, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and a collar with a lead!

 

Something Unique for Bondage Dabblers

They know what they’re doing, and you’re thoughtful enough to add to their collection of sexy items!The Bondage Vest kit by Fetish offers 14 D-rings to choose from with adjustable cuffs for the ankles or wrists. The adjustable tethers can hold someone down to a bed, chair, or anywhere you want. The Bondage isn’t a “basic” accessory by any means. So you can feel confident that they won’t already have one!

 

The Upper Echelons of Kink

TheCowgirl Sex Machine is not for the faint of heart, and it is a serious investment in your enjoyment. 

The handcrafted vegan leather saddle offers comfortable padding for the rider. Whoever is lucky enough to sit on this throne will experience 360 degrees of rotation, fun and vibration. You can control this sex machine with a corded remote or smartphone.

 

Your friend or partner will be grateful you went to such great lengths to select the perfect, sexy gift for them. 

Choosing a sex toy for someone else doesn’t have to be complicated. If these options aren’t what you had in mind, drop into one of ourthree locations. One of our excellent staff will help you choose the perfect gift. 

Or, if you’re ready to go, we offer a 2-hour delivery service!

 

Get out there,

Get in there,

Get off there!

 

Elaine S. Turner

Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, & Pleasure Product Expert

www.SexWithElaine.com

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