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December 03, 2021

It is essential to communicate your needs in the bedroom a lot of the time, especially with new partners. Even if you've been with your partner for a while, knowing what the other person likes can be challenging.

This is why we should always communicate!
Start with asking questions like:
Do you like ____?
Can I ____?
Would you like to try ____?

If you don't know the answers, that's okay too! What's important is that you and your partner are happy and consenting to the various activities you may be interested in.

Try telling your partner how it feels at different stages, whether it feels good or if it's not working for you!

The best thing to do if you don't know what you like is masturbation, getting to know yourself so you can communicate what you enjoy to your partner.

If you get to know what feels good alone, you'll have a much easier time with a partner.

It may be scary to some people, but talking out what you want will help before participating in the sex act. Then throughout, you can express how certain things feel and what might feel better!
Such as:
Can you do ____ a little softer?
This feels good but try ____ as well!
This isn't working for me. Can we try ____ instead?

There is nothing wrong with communication, especially during sex.

As they say, if you don't ask, you don't get, so make sure you tell your partner what you want! It will be a better time for everyone involved.

Author of this article:
Funtasia Penrith Sexpert

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