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March 04, 2022

As you get older, your sexual needs and preferences change. You have less testosterone in your body, which alters just about everything. You may need just a bit more grip, more umph, or even something a little kinkier to keep you going. So we've compiled this sex toy guide for mature men so that you can find the perfect toys to suit your needs.

This article about sex toys for mature men. It is the first part of a series of articles to suit the needs of mature men and women. We'll even add a piece on the best lubes for mature bodies as well! Today, we're focusing on the changing needs of the male body, so you can maximise your pleasure. 

Why is there a separate sex toy guide for mature men?

Your needs and desires aren't linear.

Your preferences will likely change and develop as the years pass.

These changes could mean that you're suddenly enjoying anal play (or you know that doctors recommend it.)

It could be that you've just got a bigger budget, and you're ready to invest in your sexual enjoyment.

Whatever it is, it isn't going to be the same for some guy in his twenties.

You've been around the block. You've tried and seen things they couldn't even imagine. And we're here to celebrate that. 

Also, with ageing comes the reduction in testosterone in your body.

Testosterone is the male sex hormone. It drives your libido, erection strength, and even your ability to experience orgasms.

This change in hormones means your body has different needs. Sometimes you may need a little extra bit of help. 


Common Sexual Challenges in Mature Men

Studies have shown that sexual "dysfunctions" become more prevalent as you age.

We use the term "sexual dysfunction" with a grain (or a bucket) of salt. It is a very negative phrase that implies something permanently wrong. In reality, you likely only need a little extra something to help. It isn't a dysfunction; things just work a little differently.

No matter your age, your sexuality is still important for your identity. Just because you get older doesn't mean you lose your desire for sex. It definitely does not mean you stop having sex. Today, we will focus primarily three of the most common sexual complaints of mature men: erectile dysfunction, lower sexual desire, and promoting prostate health.


Erectile Dysfunction

Roughly 50% of men report having symptoms of erectile dysfunction. That number is likely a lot higher if you peek into people's bedrooms.

But, erectile difficulties bring a lot of shame for many men despite being such a common problem. There's no shame in getting a little erectile support from some of our favourite products.


Cock Rings

Cock rings, constriction bands, or erection rings are designed to help you get and maintain an erection. They can either be placed at the base of the penis or behind the testicles. Depending on your needs, there are tons of different designs and styles you can choose from.

The Verge by We-Vibe

If you're playing with a partner and want some support, then there's no cock ring we love more than the Verge by We-Vibe. Because it is designed to go behind the testicles, you don't have to be already hard when you put it on! 

Wearing the Verge will help you keep the blood in your erection during foreplay. Doing this means you're ready to go when the time arises. It also vibrates, bringing you and your partner additional sensation and pleasure. 

Three-Piece Set by CalExotics

If you can get hard but struggle to stay hard, then you have several options here. Of course, cock rings are the best choice by far. They're inexpensive, and did you know you can use more than one at a time? Check out this Ultra Soft Extreme Set by LINK UP. You can use each of the rings along your penis to keep you extra hard. It also adds additional penetrative sensation to your partner!


Penis Pumps

Penis pumps are also an erectile dysfunction aid. Long term, regular use, can help you regain your erectile strength by using them like a penis gym daily. 

To use them:

  1. Put lubricant around the base of the pump's cylinder
  2. Slide your penis in and slowly pump it up until you experience an erection
  3. Slide a cock ring on the base of your penis to help maintain the erection

Many men report that these products are relationship-savers. 



Beginner's Pump by Performance

If this will be your first penis pump, start with an inexpensive and easy to use model like this one by Performance. It even comes with its own cock ring to help you stay harder for longer.



The Bathmate

If you've used pumps before and are looking for something for the long haul, there is no brand better than Bathmate. These models require a shower or bathtub, but they create the best (and safest) penis pump experience.



Prostate Health

It's been shown that men who orgasm at least 21 times per month have a reduced risk of prostate cancer. Get right to the source and start stimulating your prostate! 

Regular prostate massages can help boost your libido by giving you powerful and unique orgasms. 

To make the most of your prostate health, try some of these toys:



LELO Hugo Prostate Massager

If you're less than flexible, we've got the LELO Hugo prostate massager, which comes with a remote control. The remote means there's no awkward positioning and that your partner can help you play from across the room. 



LELO Loki Wave Prostate Massager

You can also try LELO's Loki Wave if you're playing with a partner. This fabulous design creates the "wave" motion famous for stimulating the prostate best.

If you're more about solo sex the old-fashioned way but want something to spice it up, we have you covered. 



Loss of Sexual Desire or Libido

Desire and drive play essential roles in your sexual function. Without desire, you're not going to "show up" the way you want to. 

There are many pills you can pop to help with this issue. We usually suggest staying safe and trying more natural ways to improve your sexual libido. 

One of the best ways for anyone to increase their sex drive is to masturbate more!

Yes, that's right.

If your solo-sex routine is a little bland, then no wonder why you're losing your desire!

Humans naturally seek out novelty. So get that novelty without leaving your home by investing in a masturbator.

Even if you're in a relationship, masturbators can be a great way to shake things up in the bedroom. They're easy to use, efficient, reusable, and extremely enjoyable. 



Masturbators can be split into two main categories: 

1) manual - no batteries or apps required

2) automatic - these come as straightforward or as complex as you can possibly dream.

Generally, we recommend starting with something small and inexpensive. Then, moving up to the higher budget items later once you know more about what you want.



Mini Cup - Manual

These may look strange to the untrained eye, but they're an inexpensive way to get started on your masturbator journey! These little silicone sleeves are used during masturbation. They come in a massive variety of textures so that you can change things up. 



Tenga Soft Tube- Manual

 The Tenga soft tube is a discreet and disposable way to try a masturbator without breaking the bank. The small hole on the top means that you can control the pressure inside the tube, making it as tight as you want. And the soft sides ensure that you have complete control over your masturbatory experience.



Tenga Flip Dual Sided Masturbator - Manual

Not interested in anything that vibrates? Check out the Tenga Flip. All the joys of a high-end masturbator without waiting for it to charge. The Flip offers two ends to choose from and comes apart easily, so cleaning is a breeze.



LELO F1SV2 Vibrating Masturbator - Automatic

For all the bells and whistles with 0 hassle, we've got the LELO F1SV2 vibrating masturbator. It is designed to help with erections. The interior offers a unique experience that you can control with just two buttons.



Autoblow 2+ Blowjob Machine - Automatic

Or if you're more of a blowjob guy, then we can't recommend the Autoblow enough. It offers all the sensations of a blowjob with none of the work. 

Your age is just a number.

You can't put a price on having an enjoyable sex life.

Start enjoying your sex life again by taking advantage of our lists. 

If you have any more questions about choosing a sex toy guide for mature men, then come to one of our three locations. All of our staff are certified Sexperts that can help you choose the right toy for your needs.

At Funtasia, we're here to help you celebrate your sexuality every day. So come on in or send our president sexologist, Elaine Turner, an email!


Get out there, Get in there, and Get off there!

Elaine S. Turner

Resident Sexologist | Sex Coach | Pleasure Product Expert

Instagram: @SexWithElaine

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