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Masturbate him, ball play, lubricants, pegging and premature ejaculation

Sex without lubrication is not only less enjoyable it’s more dangerous. Tiny vaginal tears can lead to infections and thrusting into a dry vagina can tear the internal tissues of a man’s penis, causing bending. 

Especially if male masturbation using a masturbatorlike a Fleshlightor pocket pussy without the correct type of personal lubricant or the right amount of lubricant. It can cause skin rash, heat rash and blisters.

You need to make sure the correct type of lubricant you need and the right amount to use. Click herefor a huge range of lubricant to buy online

Why do you need lubricant during sex or masturbation with a masturbator or pocket pussy or vibrator?

CAUSES OF VAGINAL DRYNESS

Childbirth Immediately after the birth of a child a woman’s oestrogen levels fall, especially if she’s breastfeeding. 

Drugs Some medicines, including antihistamines, the pill, and even alcohol, reduce natural lubrication in some women. 

Menopause Half of all postmenopausal women complain of dryness. 

Ageing - A woman past sixty can take several minutes of even very powerful stimulation to get aroused. 

TYPES OF Personal LUBRICANT 

Oil based lubricant

Good and slippery but destroys latex condoms. It also clings to the vaginal for walls for days, predisposing to infections. Horrid taste.

Silicone based lubricant

Good because it gets warm quicker. It is taste free and can be used on the body as massage oil. 

Water (or saliva)

Useful to reactivate most lubricants. Keep a plant mister by the bed. It is not recommended to use saliva as there might be bacteria and infections in your saliva.

Caution Avoid water-based lubricants if trying to conceive. Lubricants with nonoxynol can irritate both penis and vagina and increase urinary infections in women. 

Reason to masturbate him

Most men say that however much they may masturbate themselves, the sensations and emotions involved when their lover takes over are quite different.

Unfortunately, many couples who have been together for several years have never taken the trouble to show one another exactly what they like.

They then get to a stage in their relationship where it seems discourteous or embarrassing to ask. 

But it’s not just to be able to produce different sensations that it is important for a woman to know exactly how to masturbate her guy.

Intercourse may be off the menu for one of many reasons, such as being in the middle of a period, immediately after the birth of a Child following a gynaecological operation or a vaginal infection; but she can still satisfy his needs for an orgasm. 

It is also a good practice to stroke and masturbate him during foreplay. A man loves his penis stroke and play with, it makes him feel powerful and wanted. Try to use a male masturbator like a Fleshlight, pocket pussy, artificial vagina or vibrating automatic masturbator like the autoblow.

How to masturbate him

Watch and learn There’s no substitute for learning from the master! So start off by watching him closely as he stimulates himself. As well as learning something you’ll also find it exciting.

Get the mood right and make sure the room is warm and Keep the lights on. You don’t stand a chance of seeing how to do it in the dark. Positioning yourself so when getting down to things in earnest the first rule is comfort.

It’s essential to sit or lie in a way that means you can keep stimulating him for long periods without getting cramp or being uncomfortable. The key to good positioning is to get your lover’s genitals as near to yours as possible. 

Foreplay get him going with some foreplay that he likes. There’s no point doing things that turn you on. The object of the exercise is to arouse him.

Lubrication

Using an oil based lubricant, anoint his penis lovingly and start to caress it.

A word of warning here. The best way to hold a penis is as if you were picking up a large bottle from a table with your whole hand round the thing. Some women use a ‘pen’ type of grip and then wonder why their man doesn’t get aroused. Grip firmly.

Many men complain that women are too gentle. lf oil is too sticky you can use talcum powder. 

Experiment Use different lengths of stroke, pressures of grip, numbers of fingers, and speeds. His needs may change as he approaches orgasm. 

Be guided Let him tell you what he wants and likes. There’s little point working on the assumption that because you’ve masturbated other men you’re some sort of world expert. You won’t be. Every man is unique in what he likes best, though, to be fair, its easier to predict what a man will like than it is a woman.

You can always spice things up to give him a mix of hand masturbation and use your mouth for oral sucking and licking his balls. This will give him extra intense stimulation, this is good for those mens who is harder to get aroused.

Feedback Finally, talk about it. 

Best sex toys to use to masturbate him or use during foreplay

1. Fleshlight, pocket pussy or artificial vagina

Fleshlight masturbation product along with many other artificial vagina products on the market is very popular to use during masturbation foreplay.

Instead of using your hands, try something different. Your partner will love the feel a Fleshlight that is a real mould from a porn star. Fleshlight sex toy create a perfect artificial vagina with flesh life silicone and 100% realistic look, touch and feel of a vagina and internal walls.

Below is an image of a fleshlight girls product used for masturbation or foreplay

The Fleshlight vagina internal walls are textured to create a realistic feel when a penis penetrates as it hugs along the tip of the penis all the way down the shaft. Because of the tight design and high-quality silicone it does not lose its shape, every time he penetrate the Fleshlight it will feels tight just like the first time.

Pocket Pussy and life like realistic vagina replica is becoming extremely popular as they are cheaper and easier to use and clean.

The name realistic says a lot about the product. Many realistic ass and vagina is moulded from a real human ass and vagina and it’s a full replica of the bottom part of the female. Within working ass and vagina, there are two holes for the male to enjoy and penetrate.

We have a few articles going into more details about male masturbators here.

2. Anal butt play and prostate massage sex toys

We have other article in this blog that we have go into details about prostate massage, how to massage prostate and everything else on men’s health.

In this article we will just talk about tools you can use for Anal and prostate massage during foreplay as a masturbation technique.

Anal sex toys such as butt plug or prostate vibrator is great for using on him during foreplay. Research shows that prostate massage promote intense arousing for the men and it will give him a stronger and bigger orgasm when the climax during intercourse through vaginal penetration.

Anal Fantasy Collection of butt plug is the best entry level and high quality product you can start for all anal and butt play. Anal Fantasy sex toy comes in a few size, small , medium and large.

It is recommended for start small then work your way up to large size as your anal muscles stretched and get used to the size. Its also very pleasurable to use a vibrating butt plug such as the Screaming O Vibrating Butt Plug with remote control

3. Pegging

Pegging is getting popular in straight sex relationship in recent years, so is pegging sex toys

Many male and females loves pegging during foreplay.

What is pegging?

Pegging is the term used for when one partner wear a strap on and penetrate the other.

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4. Penis pump

Penis pump is very popular during foreplay with couples who are experience erection problems.

Penis pump can be a turn on for some men and woman.

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Ball Games

Although most couples focus on the pleasures they obtain from the man’s penis, his scrotum and testicles can also be a major centre of delight.

If you want to get him purring and coming back for more, try some of my Top Ten Ball Games. 

1. Start off simply caressing his scrotum. Then, holding his sac in your cupped hand, do something nice to another part of his body. Wet the scrotum with saliva, then blow on it, or let your hair drag lightly over it repeatedly. 

2. Gently scratching the scrotum with your finger’nail will drive him wild. 

3. Now kiss him there. If hairy balls are not to your liking, talk about shaving him. 

4. Run your tongue over his scrotum and down to his. perineum. Keep well away from his penis.

5. Now take a testicle in your mouth and gently suck it, pressing into it with your tongue. Pop it in and out of your mouth. Alternate this with nuzzling into his balls and the area around his scrotum. 

6. Next squeeze his balls, one at a time and see how he likes it. Some men find this is turn’off so be careful at first. 

7. Things men say they like are: popping the ball between your fingers so that it escapes, only to be recaptured again; squeezing different parts until you find what produces the sensations he wants; and grasping it firmly, increasing the pressure as he gets aroused, until you give him one final squeeze as he comes. 

8. Smacking a man’s scrotum can be highly arousing for both partners. Start off using just your hand to smack his penis root and scrotum while you masturbate him, or he does it himself. 

9. Many men say it’s highly arousing to have their scrotum smacked but if you overdo it you could cause inflammation of the testes and possibly even long term sterility.

You can always use a small vibrator like a bullet or egg  and put it against a his balls, it will give it a really intense sensation.

A lightweight plastic ruler used carefully can a do no harm. Some couples are more adventurous and use a slipper or small paddle. Also try a heat producing lubricant or warming lube to rub on his scrotum and penis shaft. At first this cream seems weird to have no effect but after some minutes there is a gush of sensation. 

You can also use delay cream and spray during foreplay to help with partner who have premature ejaculation.

Clothes pegs attached to the scrotal skin produce an interesting effect. As with much sexual pain, the best bit is the increase in ‘agony’ when the stimulation is removed. 

Finally, for those who enjoy piercings, various combinations of rings and chains can be very arousing for some.

LONGER Lasting sex

Many men, especially under thirty, find they can’t last as long as their partner would like. In most, this is caused by youthful exuberance or being ‘trigger-happy’.

Other men have  underlying fears, perhaps of women, their genitals or of being controlled by women; anxiety about intercourse; or a history of failure that could benefit from professional help. So what can be done? 

Tips for lasting longer sex :

1. Talking about it honestly and openly helps many men overcome underlying problems.

2. Stop having intercourse and start courting again. This takes the pressure off performance and can cure the situation. 

3. Discuss her sexuality. This often helps a lot. 

4. Try a condom. This makes the penis less sensitive and erections longer-Iasting. 

5. Try deep penetration with little movement

Contracting your deep pelvic muscles. Stop-start thrusting with rest periods

Small drink to relax yourself and if all else fails, taking your mind off arousal by thinking of something unsexy.

Masturbate an hour before having sex. 

6. Use the Squeeze Technique. Use local anaesthetic creams -with a condom so she doesn’t lose sensation too! Try to delay spray like stud 100, Indian god oilor marathon delay cream.

7. Finally, how about cock rings or straps, put on once you have an erection