Top 5 pegging positions for beginners

There’s nothing like switching roles to mix things up in the bedroom. If you’re a lady who likes the idea of buckling into a strap-on and giving your man a mind-blowing orgasm that he’ll never forget, our top five positions will help you take him there.

All you have to do is get the tools ready, then block out some quality time to put theory into practice.

Legs on shoulders

Have him lie on his back, with legs over your shoulders. Then guide a dildo or strap-on into place and start rocking.

With almost no effort required on his end, your man can relax and absorb every wave of ecstasy given. It’s the ultimate way to introduce him to the delights of prostate stimulation, while you get to watch the reactions.

Do it doggy

Just like with classic doggy, the receiving partner gets down on all fours, and the giver penetrates them. The receiver controls how much involvement they have throughout the session - and they can easily play with themselves at the same time. Or use a high-powered masturbator.

Ride ‘em cowboy

Lie back, with your toy lubed up and at a 90-degree angle. Your partner gets on top and rides till he reaches climax. Whether or not you thrust back depends on how deep he can take it, and the heat of the moment. Either way, the fun of watching his face express what he’s feeling is priceless.

And if that feels too intimate, there’s always reverse cowboy to try!

Missionary magic

Have your partner open his legs and put your knees between them. Guide a silicone or prostate massager into place, then begin bucking your hips. Being face-to-face will facilitate communication, and make the whole experience extra sensual and romantic. Especially when you look into each other’s eyes.

If you prefer things to be a bit edgier, tie him up with bondage rope for a BDSM twist that’s both naughty and nice.

Sensual spooning

Your role: The big spoon

This low-impact position is great for beginners and those who prefer shallow penetration. Like this, you can penetrate your partner from behind while both lying down on the same side, facing the same direction. He’s completely free to enjoy the session at his pace, or lie there and take all that you have to give. Feel free to dirty talk into his ear or entangle your fingers into his hair while you’re at it.

Blindfolds and restraints can turn sweet, intimate spooning into something extra. If it’s your first time exploring the “reverse” spooning dynamic - or any of the above - we recommend that you keep things. Once he has experienced the kind of bliss that prostate stimulation offers, we bet he’ll be more than willing to go on to more advanced play. But for now, these five positions should keep you both occupied - and very, very satisfied.

If you need a helping hand in choosing dildos or harnesses, feel free to ask our friendly team and we’ll happily provide recommendations.