We've all heard them: Myths, old wives' tales and fear tactics used in sex education to stop teens from getting frisky. But with so much of this happening then passed on as if it was the pure fact, it's a little hard to find out the truth.
As Sexperts, we do our best to help correct these misconceptions as soon as they're voiced in our store, but unfortunately, we don't get to see everyone one on one for these chats and questions, so let us give you a little fact vs fiction on the most common ones!
Lubricant Is For Old Women: Myth
Fact: Lubricant is a godsend for most people, whether you have a particularly long or rough romp, you're menopausal and struggling, you don't produce as much natural lubrication, your partner's a bit on the larger side, or you're just not into feeling the friction. LUBE IS FOR EVERYONE!
_____ Will Make Your Vagina Loose: Myth
Fact: This is just untrue. Your vagina is a muscle that will relax when you're warmed up and ready and then return to its original state afterwards. It's funny that people can be in long-term relationships and have sex 100 times, and no one bats an eye, but if you have sex 100 times with 100 different penises, suddenly it's a hallway.
All Women Want A Man With A Huge Penis: Myth
Fact: Everyone is different. Some women love big penises, but it has nothing to do with size, as cliché as that is. A lot of the time, speaking to women, they talk about how big penises are fun as a now-and-again treat, but huge penises are not the ones you want all the time, especially ladies on the smaller size. Find a lady that likes you for you and your flesh stick! There's only so much space in a vagina and only so much cervical bruising you can take.
Sex Must Be Really Long, and Everyone Has to Cum: Myth
Fact: Sometimes it's about the journey and not the destination! Not everyone can reach orgasm quickly; sometimes, people cum in five minutes and are too tired to do anything else. Sometimes full-on sex won't happen that night for any given reason. Long orgasm-focused sex can be frustrating, and incredibly long sex can lead to friction. Spend this time instead with lots of foreplay and just learning what feels GOOD, not what makes you cum, just the things that feel exceptionally nice. This takes a weight off everyone's shoulders and, in turn, might actually give you a better orgasm, or at the very least, everyone feels good and learns something!
At the end of the day (or night!), sex is something to be enjoyed. To relish. Make sure you are fulfilling your own needs as well as those of your partner. Everyone should walk (or wobble, haha) away happy! If you need assistance spicing things up a little, our team of Sexperts at Funtasia will go above and beyond to help you find what you are looking for. Just pop into one of our three New South Wales locations, or you can shop online at www.funtasia.com.au from anywhere in Australia! We are looking forward to hearing from you soon. X
Author of this article:
Funtasia Penrith Sexpert
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