Blow jobs and eating her

Go down on her

Choose a comfortable position. Either sitting, standing to lying down, make sure her vagina is positioned towards your face. You can get down low on your knees or if she’s standing then squat down low and face up looking directly at her vagina.

You can make her sit on the side of the bed or a table, pull her closer to the edge so her vagina is exposed and hanging off the edge. You can come straight in and spread her legs and have full access to the vagina and the clitoris. From this angle you can kneel a little and slowly lick her clitoris up and down until she orgasms.

Also try her sitting on the kitchen workbench, with you sitting on a low stool in front of her. Both make it easier on the neck and you can see what you're doing.

You lie flat on the bed and she straddles your face, balancing on her knees and holding onto the wall for stability. Get her to go into missionary position and spread her leg wide, it's best to use a pillow or a sex cushion to raise her pelvic up against your face for easier access to lick her vagina. Always use a sex pillow case as they are waterproof and machine washable.

Make sure you are using waterproof sex blanket as oral sex can be very messy. Also try her on her side and you between her thighs, her top leg around your neck. 

How to use your tongue 

Consciously relax your tongue, neck and facial muscles. It’s easier for you and it feels better for her.

Make sure the vagina is wet

Make sure there’s lots of moisture in your mouth. Use your saliva for moisture or use a flavoured lube like the JO Gelato Flavoured Lube or the Wicked Flavoured Lube.

Go Slow

Start gently but be guided by her. Some women love a so-light-it’s hardly-there lick, others just find it ticklish. 

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Leave the best for Last

Don’t head straight for the clitoris. Play with her breast by massage them and squeeze lightly on the nipple. Use your tongue to slowly lick and suck the nipples. Experiment with fast and slow movement, firm and gentle.

Use your tongue to do most of the work, relax and use it licking up and down. The clitoris tries to stretch the vagina skin back to expose the clitoris and lick in a circular motion with a sucking motion.

Don’t get distracted when go down on her

It can be distracting to keep ask if she likes what you're doing. Use your hands and hold her thigh, if she seems to love it then pull her closer towards you. Sometimes your partner wants to try something different, it doesn’t mean she didn’t ever enjoy the opposite way, just that her body has changed and he or she needs it done differently now.

Some women consistently orgasm for years with the same trick, then one day it no longer works (usually post pregnancy or post 50). Women’s body change and we need to adapt and change with it, if the old trick doesn’t work anymore then try something new. 

Some women will take longer to achieve orgasm through sexual perversion, when your mouth or tongue gets tired, try and move your head and down or sideways to continue the licking motion. Go online and buy a vibrator, a vibrator always gets female or orgasm 100% of the time. You can buy sex toys vibrators online here.

Grab her bottom, squeeze and begin rotating in big, wide circles. Use your finger to play together with her ass and finger her anal. plenty of women loves a finger inserted anally on orgasm (or before), but always ask before going there! 

Settle in. Both sexes take longer to become aroused as they develop. Let her know you're happy to stay going for as long as she wants which you're getting the maximum amount pleasure out of it as she is. 

Ask before you insert your fingers. She may not want you to if her vagina is irritated or tender. If she does want you to, use plenty of lube, keep it gentle and begin with one finger or two. 

Use a sex toy bullet vibrator to give her an orgasm

Have a vibrator handy to assist if you are not ready to last the gap or she’s having trouble tipping over into orgasm.

Hold it near the clitoris as you still lick or hold it in situ while you kiss her or caress her breasts. She might want you to insert it (use lube if she does), but the bulk of ladies hold the vibrator on the clitoral area to climax. 

Sex doesn’t need to include an orgasm. perversion feels lovely with or without an orgasm. Not all sessions should include one.

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How to give blow jobs

Find a snug position. If your knees are OK, one in every of the best positions is for him to face leaning against a wall, while you kneel on some pillows before of him. Or he can sit on the side of the bed while you kneel before of him. 

Kneeling’s out of the question? Try sitting on the side of the bed (or another appropriate-height piece of furniture) while he stands ahead of you. It’s all about height and proportion: use stairs, pillows or other bits of furniture to align his bits along with your mouth.

Or try him kneeling over you while you lie on your back, head on a pillow. He supports his weight on the wall behind the bed along with his hands, ensure you’re not at an angle where your hand goes to finish up twisted or your neck’s visiting be strained. 

Don’t stretch your lips over your teeth. It’s easier and more leisurely to relax the muscles in your jaw and neck and push your lips out.

User your hands for blow jobs

Use your hands furthermore as your mouth. It guards against gagging and it stops those embarrassing bobbing-for-apples moments, which he'll find even more mortifying if he’s anxious about not being hard enough. If your unconditioned reflex is robust, aim his penis so it’s hitting the roof of your mouth or the side of your cheek. 

Hold him at the bottom of the penis-this keeps the blood inside the chambers and him harder-then put your lips over the pinnacle and form a seal. You're aiming for slight suction so there’s pressure, without sucking. If your grip isn’t strong or it hurts to carry him for a protracted period, get him to carry himself. 

Wiggle your tongue over the frenulum (the stringy little bit of skin where the top of the penis joins the shaft), as this part is very sensitive.

Now come in a rhythm of hand follows mouth. Start slowly and gently, working up to fast and firm. Slide your fist up and down, following the movement of your mouth. Your fist closes as you come to the pinnacle and opens as you travel down the shaft. This way he won’t tell the difference between your mouth and your hand. Most older men prefer you employing a hand additionally, anyway, because it makes for firmer stimulation. If he doesn't, just grip him at the bottom and hold. 

Make eye contact as you are doing it. Doing this one single thing sexes everything up nicely. Use your tongue to touch the tip, swirl it round and round. Twist your hand because it glides up the shaft get to the head-it’s the foremost sensitive part. 

Don’t forget other bits. Fondle his testicles and lick them. Press your fingers firmly along the perineum (the hairless bit between his anus and his testicles) to stimulate his inner penis. 
Let him know you’re enjoying it. Moan. Make noise. Stop, pull back and appearance at him lustily, then start again. 

Don’t rush. As a rule of thumb, the older he's, the longer he’ll desire get to orgasm. If you would like to hurry things up, develop the pace and use a firmer grip. 

Some women dont like the taste of the penis, in that case you can use a flavored lube to try and mask the smell and take. The most popular flavored lubes on the marker is the Wicked Flavoured lube and Jo Flavoured lube.

Using sex toy during blow jobs sessions

Add other stimulation. He might now need over just oral stimulation to climax. Try inserting your finger anally to stimulate his prostate or even better use a prostate male sex toy massager (read here for more article on prostate massage).

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Squeeze his nipples or try pressing the side of your hand (make an ‘L’), hard, in between his legs on the perineum. Put your hand on his lower belly and rub slowly but firmly to stimulate a part of his penis that you just can't see. 

Think about what you’re visiting do when he orgasms. Don't leave him flapping about at the crucial moment. If you don’t fancy swallowing, simply remove your mouth, keep going along with your hand and let him ejaculate some other place (like over your breasts). 

How to give Hand Jobs

As with head, what want to get it on for you may not be what gets you there now. Your body has changed, and things need adjusting. Just let your partner know and problem solved.

Be sure to use many good-quality premium lube and don’t be scared to prevent and add more. If a vibrator works better for you now than fingers, again, don’t be scared to let your partner know (less effort for them!). Ditto, if either of you've got any problems together with your fingers or hands.

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Choose your position. the quality thanks to provides a hand-job is to try and do it lie beside your partner in bed.

Sometime try standing behind him and reaching your hands around you'll both can masturbate each other. Or try him standing and you sitting on the bed before of him. If you’re in good condition and he isn’t, straddle him and sit lightly on his tummy, facing his feet. 

Get him to point out you the way he masturbates and try to do the same. Pay attention to precisely where he places his hand and fingers to begin and find him to place his hand on top of yours to test, you're spot on. He can then adjust the pressure or pace to suit him. 

The basic stroke is to form a loose fist and pump up and down. Or put all your fingers on one side and thumb on the opposite and pump or make a shaking motion. 

If your grip isn’t strong, try rolling his penis between two flat palms, sort of a roll of pastry. Or clasp your hands and interlock your fingers, overlapping your thumbs, but leaving room for his penis to slide within the middle.

Lower your hands over his penis, close your thumbs, then slide your clasped hands up and down, twisting gently as you are doing. 

Mix it up. Alternate 10 slow but firm strokes with a fast, firm pump up and down. Add an additional pump every time you are doing it. Use a strand of pretend pearls, wrap them around your hand or the shaft of his penis and slide up and down. Use personal lube and check the ‘pearls’ first, filing any rough edges down with a nail file. this can be great if he needs stronger stimulation. 

There are many personal lubricants on the market but when it comes to masturbation you need a good lube. Masturbation is different from sex, during sex intercourse the female body also produce lubricant but during masturbation your hands does not produce any lubricant, so it is important to use a thick water based lubricant or a premium silicone based lubricant so it last longer.

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If all fails so back to see a ‘stroker’ to create things more intense for him and to require the strain off, you. These are textured, masturbatory sleeves that you just slip over the penis and manipulate up and down. Use with plenty of lube. 
Add extra stimulation, as suggested within the head guide (an inserted finger, a squeeze of the nipples).

Get him to require over if it’s impossible for you to stay going for any length of your time. You watch as he does it. Or, if you want to create his day, lie back and pleasure yourself employing a sex toy. 

How to finger her

The best way to start is lying beside her, if that works for you and your hand doesn’t feel twisted. Or get her to sit down together with her legs spread, then sit behind her, your legs on either side of hers. Then use both hands on her clitoris, or one on her breasts and therefore the other below. Or sit in an exceedingly chair and obtain her to take a seat on your lap. 

Ask her what she wants. Some women find they need firmer, more direct clitoral stimulation as they grow old. Others go the opposite way and wish it even gentler than before.

Use plenty of lube and keep it beside you to stay adding more if she starts to feel dry. Reactivate lube by adding a touch of saliva. 

Start by holding your fingers still against her closed labia and concentrate to how she positions herself and grinds against you. Try to sense it and see what kind of pressure she wants, if you are comfortable enough then just ask her softly.

Touch her more slowly and gently than you think that she could possibly want. Try not to go in too quick and too rough as women don’t like it too rough too soon. Take your time.

The basic technique is to position your index and ring fingers so they’re resting on the outer labia lips. Then use your finger to carefully rub the clitoris up and down or in a circle, maintaining a slow, steady rhythm.

Use the flat of your finger and the whole pad of your fingertip to rub or slide, instead of just the tip. It feels softer and covers a bigger area. Read her visual communication. If she lifts towards your hand, she wants a firmer touch. If she pulls away, go softer. 

Don’t put your fingers inside unless she wants you to. Especially if sex hurts during intercourse. Focus on the surface and clitoral area. It’s the best formula for a female masturbation because the clitoris is the most sensitive part. Keep the strokes light, consistent and continuous. If she needs firmer stimulation than she did before, get her to place her hand on top of yours to point out you the pressure she wants. 

Try ‘the roll’ if she wants strong, direct stimulation. Use the clitoral hood (the fold of flesh protecting the clitoris) such as you would a foreskin, moving it up and down instead of touching the clitoris. Using it as a buffer, roll it between your thumb and finger to stimulate the clitoris.

If your hands get tired, then use a female finger vibrator masturbation sex toy. There are sex toys vibrator that you can wear on your finger to help you with female masturbation.

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