Key steps in finding the right tool for your bondage session
Our Fetish & BDSM experts here at Funtasia have come up with a list of ways you can start to explorer into the Bondage world.
As crazy as it sounds, Bondage sex is 10 times more exciting that any other form of sex in the world. And that’s a fact.
5 musts for entering the BDSM World
Maybe you are just curious or maybe you are just trying to spice things up and don’t know where to start. Nevertheless, here is the TOP 5 things all new coming BDSM goes should do:
- Have a conversation about your limits and expectation going from the beginning. BDSM can be dangerous when not used properly and so its very important to get an idea before going into of what is and isn’t on the table before experimenting
- Research, the internet comes in handy here to research and what is that you are thinking of trying to do. What tools and equipment you might need to achieve this?
- Tools and Equipment. First timer or Beginners into Fetish & BDSM are always better off going into a store and asked the adult toys expert. Or Like our website here you can message us on Messenger via FB or Instagram and Google Messaging. Our staff is online 24/7 to help you with any questions.
Speaking to an expert will give you the right advice on what tools and equipment you need to have an exciting and enjoyable BDSM session. We can also put your mind at easy if you are nervous.
- Safe Play. Always ensure you have consent before beginning and set a ‘safe word’ top be used to stop play and ensure everyone is safe and enjoying the session
- This is the most underrated but also the most important part of and BDSM session. This gives you the opportunity to reassure your partner of your love and affection for them by showing them a little extra care post session. It also allows you both to reflect on your activities so you can adjust harm here is need for next time.
In the end if you continue to fine tune each session, the result in the future is a great BDSM session every time.
What tools and Equipment do I need for a great BDSM Session?
When entering the kink world, the first thing you hear will be cuffs, whips and gag. Yes, the ABC in BDSM is just that.
Cuffs, whips and GAG is an essential in the beginners of BDSM.
Things to look out for when choosing you tools
- Does it fit you comfortably?
- Is it adjustable?
- Is it waterproof? Can I wash it or clean it with wipes?
- Is there a safety mechanism?
- Cost?
You need all 5 YES for the answer then you are heading in the right direction. But remember, try not to go cheap when you are looking for BDSM tools and equipment. Quality is very important here, so sometimes its better to pay premium for a superior product
What else do I need to complete my BDSM fantasy
So, you are bored of your beginners’ tool! The next level can be very expensive but very exciting.
The following is what you should include in your intermediate to advanced level of Fetish & BDSM sessions toolbox
Collar and Leashes
Leather body suits
Full face Mask
Rope and restrains
Chasity lock (cock cages)
Swings and sex machine
Heavy duty Clitoral Clamps and Nipple Clamps
Gag Balls
Why use Gags?
Gags are becoming a growing fetish in the bedroom. The feeling of being over powered, controlled and the feeling of submissiveness to the other person by using gags or ball gags is one of the most popular.
People find gags a turn on as it provokes the feeling of being trapped and being forced to do whatever the other person wants.
Ball gags are used commonly with other items like handcuffs, blind folds, whips, collars and leads. This adds and heightens the submissiveness feelings and again sexually turning each other on.
Do woman like using gags?
There has been a lot of hot steamy novels and movies outlining and great detail of a spunky hunky guy using all sorts of bondage to control and over power their female lover so they an sexually do what ever they want to them. This has raised the bar in the bedroom for most woman and the expectations are high.
So yes most woman love gagsand love the feeling of being helpless to the other person and most woman love to give it a try.
There are many different ball gags to try from the most basic to the advanced. There is even ball gags that have holes in-between so that breathing is made easier and comfortable.
So ask the woman does she want to try? And you will be surprised with the answer.
Does ball gags comes in different sizes?
Ball gags comes in many different sizes to satisfy different peoples comfort levels. The sizes range from 2cms to 7cms and they come with straps to help hold in place the gag during rough play.
Restrains
What are BDSM restrains?
Restrains are tools used in all forms of BDSM that can stop the submissive person from using their hand or feet or other parts of their body. The most common form of restrains are hand cuffs and ankle cuffs.
Can I easily get out of a foot and arm harness?
The foot and arm harness are used mostly to bound down onto the bed post . Looks very hard to escape but our harness comes with a safety release so that at any time you can get yourself out without any fuss.
Does the tape hurt when ripping off the skin?
Sex restraint tape are used to bound any part of the body. These tapes are no ordinary tape like your typical packing tape that can really take out layers or skin when you pull it off.
The tape we have available is specially made to ensure that no skin will be damaged and is strong enough to hold a person down how you would like it.
People tend to use the tape in place of cuffs and ropes as it creates a more rough environment in the bedroom as if you have been captured by a crazy sex addict.
The other bonus is you don’t have to worry about looking for keys to unlock yourself when playtime is over. A simple snip and tug with the tape and all will be off in seconds
How does a sex swing work?
The sex swing is one of those intriguing restraint items that people ask about and often curious to know how it works.
The swing is very simple equipment. You need to find a strong place to mount it to whether it would be against a door or hanging off the ceiling. There are arm and feet restraints and a spreader bar to keep the person in place.
So very similar to being strain on the bed but this is in a vertical free moving spot. The sex swing has been very popular with multiple group sex sessions so the person restrained can be seduced by multiple people.
Of course, the swing is increasingly popular for the ordinary bedroom for those who want some vertical sexual pleasures. .
Is the Swings strong and safe?
The swings are especially designed to hold any body weight swing just like the ones you see at the local playgrounds. Ensuring that all installation recommendations are followed, then the swing will be a very safe and playful addition.
Who uses the Sex Swings?
The sex swings are usually found at swingers party or group orgy parties. This allows for multiple people to enjoy the person on the swing and the rest of the group watching.
There is restraints on the swing for the legs and arms so the person can be in place safely and comfortably.
Whips and Paddles
How Much does Whips cost?
There are many ranges of whips available from the most simple to the most elaborate to suit anyone’s taste. The price of whips vary as well depending on what you are looking for.
The cheapest whip starts at $20 and at that price you can own a whip and start on your domination fetish without breaking the bank.
How much are paddles?
To own a paddle for sexual domination and pleasure, it starts from as little as $30.
What are whips and paddles made from?
Whips and paddles are made to smack and whip a person and so the materials used to make these items need to feel comfortable on the skin and also be durable to withstand heavy use.
Therefore, the make of choice is usually leather. Leather is durable, long lasting and feels good on the skin. For extra strength plastic is used in some whips and paddles to secure the leather whip or paddle.
How do you feel when using a whip or paddle?
People associate whips and paddles as very dominating violent and painful. But there are people who find pain is pleasure or dominance is sexy and becomes a turn on. Again feeling submissive is often a fantasy for some people and incorporating this into their bedroom play is most desired.
So then whips and paddle is often the first item of choice to achieve the pleasurable pain and the domination of a partner.
Like with starting anything, always start soft and when that becomes numb and does not get the juices flowing then more harder pressure can be applied.
Some people find over time, the whipping and smacking would be so hard that it is not painful but the pleasure is heighten especially during orgasm
Sex Machines
What is a SEX Machine ?
The Sex Machine is exactly what the name suggests. It is mechanically designed to penetrate horizontally into the anal or pussy and move as though you are being pumped. The power of the machine gun can go up to 5 times stronger and longer than your average man .
Simply attached the desired dildo size and insert into desired area for penetration then switch it on. Hands free and all automatic penetration for maximum orgasm.
What is the Synbian Saddle?
As the name suggests, this machine is a saddle for u syou to it on top. Like the mechanical bull that you see at some pubs or amusement parks, this saddle will ride you until you peak.
The Synbian Saddle allows you to have handsfree pleasure by sitting on too of the saddle inserting the dildo into the desired spot and the machine will do the rest of the work
The vibration and movement will mimic the sexual rhythm needed for you to reach maximum pleasure . handle bars are also incorporated so that you can make sure you hold on for the entire ride. .
What is a Hand Held Sex Machine?
These hand held devices are much smaller and easier to hide away from nosey people wanting to know what kinky business is lurking in your bedroom. The hand held sex machines looks like your ordinary vibrator however these machines require, minimal effort from you to move.
Instead, the head of the machine has a movable head to go in and out rapidly so that you do not have to move it yourself.
